about love

i found this quote and instantly falling in love with it

" Immature people falling in love destroy each others freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature person in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sort of bondage. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness. (OSHO)

what do you think about love? love supposed to be beautiful thing right? sometimes it might be hard, confusing or dissapointing but still it's a beautiful thing to loving something.

so, what if you disappoint because the one your love did not fulfill your expectation? it's ambition dear, is that love?
what if you feel pain because you see your loves one with anyone else? it's jealousy dear, is that's love?
what if you want to owned someone because you love them? like a slavery. it's obsession dear.

I think love is about helping the loved one grow, we learn to face the world together, we learn from that, but when we grow in different path, that's time for you to moving on.

Gak perlu nahan orang yang mau pergi, jangan maksain bahagia kita dengan mengorbankan bahagia orang lain yang bukan ada pada kita. 

"You don't need to ask for it if they really want to stay"