Jadi ceritanya ...
Dulu saya orang nya hopeless romantic, Suka nya di perhatiin 24 jam sehari 7 hari seminggu.
Suka nya sama sweet talks, Romantic gift, Cute surprise. I believe in fairy tales, i believe that your prince will do everything for you, they MUST DO everything to catch your heart. to make you as princess of this tiny world, smile and happy everyday, every time, every minutes in their life. hahahahaha lebay banget yahh tapi emang pokoknya saya hopeless romantic.
And then I found this man.
He hate surprise, any kind of surprise, ga peduli itu ulang tahun, anniversary. He just hate that idea of surprise.
Ga bisa ngomong romantis. Pengen bunga? Minta aja langsung, nunggu tiba tiba di beliin? Nah, Neverrrrr. Jadi kalo lagi pengen bunga, i will begging to him, sounds rude? actually no. i just will annoy him and whining about flowers, and we will buy it together.
Sweet talk/Pillow talk? We do pillow talk when we argue, when we fight and i will chatter, blabbering and annoy him and then we do that argue pillow talk all night long defend our argument.
But then,
he will always say sorry after all that argument.
he never give me sweet surprise with that balloon, flower, gift but he fixed my leaky keran (keran bocor apa sih bahasa inggrisnya? Lol), fix my broken charger, AC, etc without i even ask.
he come with food when i am angry&hungry and always let me decide the place to eat.
he treat my family with respect, he attend to my family event even i cant attend that because i am still working at that moment and he will mix well with all my family. in fact my mom will call him instead of call me, and my grandma worry about him more than to me,
he never complain when i used too much make up or not wear at all, if i look messy or look like ibu ibu mau ke pasar. he will smile and always give me confidence by saying i look beautiful anyway,
It's all the way he treat me a bit different but i get used to it. after all he always there for me. I am not that hopeless romantic anymore, i think i get mature by realize that Yes I am still princess, but your prince also human. and happy ending in fairy tale are just stories that haven't finished yet.
It's almost 3 years in relationship now. With enough time you can get used to most anything.
